{"id":569,"date":"2014-11-15T11:01:59","date_gmt":"2014-11-15T19:01:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/?p=569"},"modified":"2014-11-15T15:14:53","modified_gmt":"2014-11-15T23:14:53","slug":"the-other-as-an-aspect-of-our-truer-self-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/?p=569","title":{"rendered":"The Other as an Aspect of our Truer Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<div title=\"Page 1\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<div title=\"Page 1\">\n<div>\n<h3>\n<div title=\"Page 1\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">The Other as an Aspect of our Truer Self<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/h3>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Paper for the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD) 2014 PsiberDreaming Conference (PDC)<\/em><br \/>\n\u00a9 by Beverly (Kedzierski Heart) D\u2019Urso<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/dreamfact1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"dreaming guy\" src=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/dreamfact1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When  our physical self goes to sleep, our dream self awakens in a dream  world. Our dream self acts as one of the characters in our dream, taking  on an image of our physical self. We have what   feels like very real  experiences in this dream world with other dream characters, but if we  don\u2019t know that our physical self is dreaming, we don\u2019t sense our  connection with our physical self, the dreamer.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\" title=\"Page 2\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We  continue having dream experiences until our physical self wakes up out  of the dream. Does our dream self now die? Does it really matter,  because we now find ourself in another world. From the perspective of  our physical self, our dream self, the other dream characters, and the  whole dream environment no longer seem to exist. We could say they all  dissolved back into our physical self\u2019s mind, although they never really  left it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/dieandwakeup.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"die and wakeup\" src=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/dieandwakeup-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div title=\"Page 2\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>When our truer self goes to sleep, our physical self awakens in a  physical world. Our physical self acts as one of the characters in the  physical world, taking on an image of our truer self. We have what feels  like very real experiences in this physical world with other physical  characters, but because we don\u2019t know that our truer self is dreaming,  we don\u2019t sense our connection with our truer self, the dreamer. We  continue having physical experiences until our truer self wakes up out  of the physical world. Does our physical self now die? Does it really  matter, because we now find ourself in another world. From the  perspective of our truer self, our physical self, the other physical  characters, and the whole physical environment no longer seem to exist.  We could say they all dissolved back into our true self\u2019s mind although  they never really left it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/surrender.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"surrender\" src=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/surrender-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div title=\"Page 3\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>Having lucidity while asleep, we sense a connection with our physical  self while our physical self sleeps. This connection creates a very  powerful and meaningful dream life. Fear disappears because we know that  we are more than just our dream body. We view all the characters in our  dream, including our own character, as equal aspects of our physical  self. We feel that we can direct our dream world by surrendering to the  will of our physical self.<\/p>\n<p>Having lucidity while awake, we sense a connection with our truer  self, while our truer self sleeps. This connection creates a very  powerful and meaningful physical life. Fear disappears because we know  that we are more than just our physical body. We view all the characters  in our physical world, including our own character, as equal aspects of  our truer self. We feel that we can direct our physical world by  surrendering to the will of our truer self.<\/p>\n<div title=\"Page 4\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/connection.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"connection\" src=\"http:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/connection-131x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"131\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Wherever we experience dream characters, both our physical self and  our truer self sleep. If our dream self senses a connection not only  with our physical self, as typical in lucid dreams, but with our truer  self, then it has access to the physical world because our truer self in  a sense dreams up the physical world. In this case, the characters in  our dreams could have a connection to others in our physical world  because they exist as aspects of our truer self.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We can view birth and life as a process similar to sleep and dreaming. In both cases, our truer self appears to separate into distinct characters creating the concept of the other. Who these others represent depends upon our definition of self. When I view my self as Beverly, namely my body and personality, I might feel that the characters in my sleep state dreams represent aspects of Beverly. But if I view my self as more than Beverly, then these characters could represent aspects of people in my waking life or beyond. While asleep or awake, we learn about our truer self by noticing how all these so called separate characters interact. When we identify with one character in particular, we may have experiences such as fear, judgement, or grief. When we can accept these experiences, we identify with all the characters and treat them with compassion and love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/569"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=569"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/569\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":572,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/569\/revisions\/572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wedreamnow.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}